Sami’s Blog- Boredom

Would you choose pain over boredom? When is the last time you were alone with your thoughts and totally at peace with it? Well, it is official, most men would rather shock themselves than be alone with their thoughts.

A new report from psychologists at Harvard University found that when men and women were left to sit by themselves for 15 minutes with no ‘’distractions” apart from a machine to deliver light electric shocks a massive two thirds of men and a quarter of women chose the electricity over sheer solitude. Seriously.  For me the thought of being locked in a room by myself for 15 minutes sounds awesome. Even in the toilet my kids hunt me down and the house is always a surround sound stereo of screaming, crying, fighting, needy (and gorgeous) little voices. 

I am a day dreamer so even I think I still could hang out with myself. I think. I am that person who likes going to the movies by herself.  Upgrade me to Gold Class and life is great.  Throw in a nachos and those recliner seats and it is one of the greatest days of my life.  Anyway, back to this study. Individuals were placed in sparsely furnished rooms and asked to put their belongings, such as mobiles and pens, away.  They were then asked to sit between 6 and 15 minutes in the room by themselves.  They could push a button if they wished that would give them a slight electric shock.  67% of men and 25% of women chose to inflict the pain upon themselves rather than sit by themselves.

We really are goldfish with the shortest of attention spans and many of us find it almost impossible to focus for more than a very short time.  One unusually bored man pressed the button to give himself a shock 190 times.  Sounds like a crazy. I probably dated him back in the day.  And you know what I would be day dreaming about in that room of solitary confinement? Yes. Nachos and reclining chairs at the movies.